November 13, 2017

GRATITUDE: 3 keys to master calm amidst chaos

Are you grateful all the time?

Of course not…but this will help.

You’ve heard the importance of practicing gratitude as a means of creating the life you desire. But life isn’t always fun and it can be difficult to be grateful after you’ve had a miscommunication with a loved one, found an error in your checking account math, or been in an accident that keeps you from working.

The trick of course is to maintain gratitude regardless of what is unfolding around. When you keep your energetic vibration positive, you don’t get stuck in the lower energies that create ill-health, lack of motivation and depression and can experience more of what you want.


How do you maintain gratitude in the midst of the everyday chaos?


Intuition is the education you didn’t get in school that allows you to interpret the bigger picture of your life so you can find your unique balance of mind body and soul and are able to maintain gratitude.

In this week’s Intuitive Living Blog, I will teach you the 3 keys to mastering gratitude so you can achieve all that you desire.

3 keys to mastering gratitude that will increase your health, opportunities and happiness.

Key 1 – Don’t reject your chaos

People who live a spiritually connected life often feel it’s best to dwell in the light and stay away from the dark. When something bad happens, they tend to judge themselves as if they didn’t dwell in enough light. But this incorrect. What you need to understand is that you are a balance of both positive and negative and to deny either one would create imbalance. To maintain gratitude does not mean that you remain perpetually happy. Negative things happen. Embrace the challenges you face and know that your difficulties are designed to teach you something that will make you stronger and more capable in your life. You just have to learn the lesson.


Key 2 – Intuit your life lesson

Once you accept your life’s chaos, you can begin to learn the lesson that will allow you to create your desires. This isn’t always easy because it requires that you trust your intuition and if you haven’t been trained or counseled on how to do use your intuition you might second guess yourself and create more chaos. I recommend that you seek intuitive development and counseling so you become more effective with this technique.

Start by closing your eyes. Imagine yourself in a safe, neutral space. Once there, ask the people or circumstances to appear. Then simply ask the question…What are you trying to teach me? This is where you have to trust what you hear, see and feel. You might hear something like…You are learning independence, or You are learning to receive support. Or you might feel a sense of learning to let go or learning to be patient. Generally, your first instinct is correct. Once you have a sense of what you are learning, you can move on to the next key.

Key 3 – Makes necessary changes

When you understand the lesson of your difficulties, you have passed them and can take steps to change parts of yourself or your life so you experience more of what you desire. The last question you will ask yourself is…What does my intuitive knowledge allow me to change? If your lessons is to learn patients then perhaps your intuition is telling you to change the parts of you that want to rush ahead or expect things to move faster. Instead, you will replace those mental prompting with the intuitive knowledge that it is ok for things to go slow and happen at their own pace. When you do this, you are accepting your circumstance and working with them in gratitude for what they allow you to learn so you can have the life you deserve.


These 3 keys will help you maintain balance so you are able to be in gratitude even for the not so wonderful events of your life. It’s in our greatest trials we learn our greatest lessons and can therefore grow and evolve ourselves and our circumstances. Having gratitude for ALL that is happening, good, bad and indifferent, is the key to maintaining an attitude of gratitude which is what you need to if you want to create the rich, full, thriving and inspired life you desire.

Happy intuiting!


Michelle DesPres

Clairvoyant medium and life strategist helping you learn to be the TRUE YOU!


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