January 20, 2017

FUN: A woman’s secret weapon for changing the world

Cyndi Lauper’s song, “Girls just want to have fun” is true. But did you know that you could use FUN as the way to change the world?

 The feminine heart is light and full of laughter and her main purpose is to bring joy to the world. Unfortunately, women have rarely been afforded their truth and their ways of being…until now.

The times have shifted and today the feminine essence is the energy being supported on the planet…not that woman should be seen as somehow superior just that balance is coming back…and FUN is the key.

Immediately after the presidential elections, a surge of determination swept over the nation with women being mostly affected. The idea that human, animal and planetary rights would now be in jeopardy due to a simple change in administration seemed not only appalling but inane, archaic and uninformed and woman everywhere, not just in the United States but globally, began gathering to ensure that progress not be lost and that women’s perspectives and contributions be acknowledged and acted upon.

Yet, as determined as all of us woman are now to create greater change…and we will …it’s important not to lose sight of what gives women their power…FUN.

Caution should be taken at this time of shifting potentials because it’s important that you do things differently. If you want to use anger to motivate your efforts today, you will only be matching the masculine and creating more of the past. Alternatively, if you follow your “fun”, will be in alignment with your nature and will see circumstances around you lighten, soften and become more accommodating so that your ideas can be heard and brought into the mix.

Anger doesn’t get the job done anymore as a matter of fact it only creates the opposite of what you want. Fun, lightheartedness, joy, and laughter are the keys to coming at life differently so you experience new circumstances and can create alternative value systems.

So to be clear, fun isn’t just about having a good time without care for tomorrow. Fun is about learning to live the life that brings you personal fulfillment so you can make the world a better place.

Think of it like this…if it’s fun for you to contribute to a cause making a difference, find your cause and get active with them but don’t do it out of anger do it for fun or because it brings you, and consequently the world, more joy.

Whatever efforts you put your energies toward whether its family, partnership, work, community causes, etc, make it fun and watch the world lighten around you and come around to your higher ways of thinking.

Be a woman…do things differently…have fun…create a new standard of living!


  1. Start intuitively paying attention and noticing when you, or someone else, is using anger or unhappiness to get their way versus fun or joy. This simple step of awareness will help see anger more clearly as well as what areas of your life need more fun.
  2. Once you are aware of what it looks like to operate from anger and unhappiness, make conscious steps to recognize when you go into those behaviors and change your thoughts and actions to reflect joy and fun so you are redirecting the energies of discontent into satisfaction.
  1. If you are entrenched in circumstances that weight you down and only bring you misery, recognize that the energy you are adhering to further creates unhealthy circumstances for you and the others involved and think about letting go of these situations so you can incorporate more fun into your life and are able to experience and bring joy to the world.
  1. Make time for play. It’s too easy to get bogged down in seriousness. Making time to go out and have fun with friends, listen to live music, dance, go for a hike or simply roll around on the floor with the kids or like a kid. Don’t forget that life is fun
  1. Smile often and get creative with expression your joy as your means of helping people see your point. You are never weak when expressing yourself with love.


With you on the journey,


Michelle DesPres


Clairvoyant medium and life strategist helping you learn to be the TRUE YOU!


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